Just a base story; brother girl friend... my family no like-y. Insist on breaking up but apparently she very clingy :) so once they broke up and my father cut all connections i can FINALLY vent my anger. here goes; (UBER LONG)
Sophia Koay I hope you feel happy and very satisfied of the shit you have managed to put my brother into. not only is he grounded in the house until he leaves but he is probably not going to KL which i think is good because then he will be further away from you. Sasha, honestly i think you are a very selfish and immature person, sure you show your friends that you are nice and caring but you are so selfish. the way you treat my brother and the things you do to him. If you truly loved him you would have left him because you know how angry my father was. obviously you were too selfish to. I know the situation you're in and i do not believe you... even if say it were true... you shouldn't use it as an excuse. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO STAY WITH A MAN WHO IS RELUCTANT TO STAY WITH YOU?!?!??!?!?!(ps if you bad name him i swear I will get you in KL) :D my dad will make sure you cannot contact him... if you try well then i guess you are desperate.. oh and mind you I'm celebrating that he has finally rid of u
Isabella Borgers
you know what?
taunting her isn't doing shit. & you should probably yank your head out of your ass and realize that wow, brother "dearest" also made the decision to stay with sasha. oh yeah, and what kind of shallow person would stay with a girl he doesn't want to be with? maybe the kind that did like her at some point. remember that, sam? you were happy & WHY? because she made you happy. you're just biggest piece of shit for convincing your sister to fight your fucking battles. good for you, being a little rat following behind her to click one fucking button in an attempt to hurt her. since when was your sister involved in the relationship that was between you and sasha? AND YOU KNOW WHAT ELSE? you're just a scum of the earth liar who once said that you would never do anything to hurt her. what makes you think that you are some sort of 'perfect guy'? how lucky the earth is to have been graced with your presence, asshole.
taunting her isn't doing shit. & you should probably yank your head out of your ass and realize that wow, brother "dearest" also made the decision to stay with sasha. oh yeah, and what kind of shallow person would stay with a girl he doesn't want to be with? maybe the kind that did like her at some point. remember that, sam? you were happy & WHY? because she made you happy. you're just biggest piece of shit for convincing your sister to fight your fucking battles. good for you, being a little rat following behind her to click one fucking button in an attempt to hurt her. since when was your sister involved in the relationship that was between you and sasha? AND YOU KNOW WHAT ELSE? you're just a scum of the earth liar who once said that you would never do anything to hurt her. what makes you think that you are some sort of 'perfect guy'? how lucky the earth is to have been graced with your presence, asshole.
Yesterday at 11:41am
Sara Jayasuriya Yes, because posting rude comments like the one below on peoples' facebook profiles for the whole fucking world to see is not IMMATURE AT ALL.
im sorry. i know its not good enough but i dont know what else to say. i thought it would be okay to stay with him at least for a little while because he said it was okay. i really didnt mean to get him grounded or anything like that. i really didnt know that would happen. and please, dont stop him from going to KL. i know he really wants to go to that school. i will move, ill go somewhere else.
you probably dont believe me when i say all this, but its true. im truly sorry that your whole family had to hate Sams girlfriend. i know he deserves the best. please, if i cant contact him.. tell him im sorry for all the trouble i put him through. i thought by fighting for this relationship it would show my love for him. i guess i got it wrong.
you probably dont believe me when i say all this, but its true. im truly sorry that your whole family had to hate Sams girlfriend. i know he deserves the best. please, if i cant contact him.. tell him im sorry for all the trouble i put him through. i thought by fighting for this relationship it would show my love for him. i guess i got it wrong.
1. do not come between family and him.. best way to get a man is through his family
2. he isn't going KL anymore because of the decisions that both of you have made it has made us believe that he isn't mature enough to go to KL on his own.
3. STOP VICTIMIZING YOURSELF... its very annoying
2. he isn't going KL anymore because of the decisions that both of you have made it has made us believe that he isn't mature enough to go to KL on his own.
3. STOP VICTIMIZING YOURSELF... its very annoying
This is getting out of hand.
I cannot believe I am actually saying this, but I apologize for my public reply to your wall post on Sasha’s page. I believe such an act to be very immature, and so I apologize for the hypocrisy involved with my response. However, at the same time, I must say a part of me feels no guilt because it is a natural reaction to seeing my best friend talked to like she were nothing but dirt. Quite honestly, it pains me deeply to watch something like that happen.
I am not going to talk to you with strings of swear words, however much I want to, because I am hoping for a mature, open, response from you, and I know I can only expect less than that unless I am the same with you. And so I will be.
First of all, I would like to know what your personal problems are with Sasha.
As her best friend, I know that she loves your brother, very deeply. I know this as a solid fact, and yes, I also know, that she hasn’t always treated him the best she has been able to.
Sasha was not born a bitch. In truth, she is not a bitch. Rather, she has issues. Problems. She is sensitive in some areas, and occasionally does things because of pain, and because she is dealing with rather intimate problems, but I assure you, as someone who knows her very well, that she is not a bitch. Please try to put yourself in her shoes, for just a moment. As another human being, surely you know how we all do and say stupid things that are often misinterpreted through other ears and eyes.
She is not “selfish and immature” as you so blatantly label her for all her friends, and family, to read on her public profile page. And in being honest and open with you, I find that act itself to be quite selfish and immature. You do not know Sasha, although you may like to think you do. So please, give all the labels a rest.
I am not asking you to like her. I understand opinions do not shift with a snap of someone’s fingers, but I am merely asking you just to be reasonable and to look at this with open eyes, and an open heart. If you have a problem with her, please deal with it in a way that is not abusive towards her. Because that is really what it is – abusive. I am hearing and watching the results of your endless picking at her, and you do not know what you’re doing to her. It is, to say the least, scarring, and is this really what you intend to do? Scar another human being that bleeds and feels the way you do?
If you’ve read this much of this message, I thank you for taking the time to hear what I have to say. I would appreciate it if you carried on.
As I mentioned, previously, Sasha feels quite deeply for your brother. I have watched their love slowly grow over the past year or so, and as an outsider looking in, I have to say, it has really been a beautiful thing to watch. Just like normal relationships, they’ve had their bumps in the road, but most importantly, the love has been true and pure.
I understand it is a family’s job to nurture a growing person, and to teach him/her various lessons. Respect, being one. Personally, I feel to teach someone respect, you must show them respect in return. In looking at the current situation, does it not seem that both parties’ feelings are being disrespected? With the way things are going, it seems they are being taught how to fear. Not how to respect.
This relationship is a learning experience for both Sam and Sasha. And again, as an outsider looking in, I personally feel it is wrong and unjust for two people to be forced apart by outside parties - outside parties who walk in different shoes, and therefore, do not know the depth of their love. They are two, young, innocent people simply going through a stage of life where they are feeling things they’ve never felt before, hurting and learning how to heal… Do we not destroy the natural process of their emotional growth by sticking our noses where they are not required?
So now that I am drawing to a close, I am going to sum up my propositions, my requests…
The relationship, originally, consisted of two people. Now, it seems there are more of us involved. Perhaps, it’s time for us to step outside, and leave them to what is theirs. Not ours – not ours to try to control, or stop. It may end badly, it may end well, but let it be because they have made their own decisions, and not because we made them, for them.
Sasha is my best friend. I know for a fact she has tried her best to please you, and your family. She loves your brother, and all she wants is a simple blessing. As a young girl growing, please do not treat her as though she has lived for a hundred years and should know everything. None of us are perfect.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. I would really appreciate a reply.
Also, feel free to share this with the rest of your family. I am not ashamed or embarrassed about what I have written.
Sara.
FCUK U!!! ur a sad sad little fcuk! i mean who r u to judge!! If ur a christian.... like ur brother... *sigh* sasha didn't do jack shit to you.... leave her alone!!! u really think ur all high and mighty.... don't u?? but what i see is a "THING" that is full of hate and filth!! Ur the one who is immature... by the way... sweetie YOU FCUKING DISGUST ME!!
please reply me as soon as u read this. would like to know what a BIOTCH like u would say to that?? teeeeheeeeee.... i like eggs!!
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